Tuesday 27 September 2016

Is it ego to fight for yourself?
Does it make you selfish to want to be happy? to stand for yourself. It is funny ! really it is, how easily people judge you and your character when everyday they, themselves make choices that makes them happy. Why do we do the thing we do every single day is it to satisfy others or to satisfy ourselves? answer is simple even when we say that we did it for someone else we don't really mean it is all a cover , all of us at the end of the day do things that we want to do, that makes us happy.
Isn't it selfishness? to give it another's name. Oh yeah! we usually do it because if somehow things go wrong we can easily throw the blame on the other person. All of us become selfish when it comes to our happiness we choose what we think is best for us. Then why hide ourselves , hide who we are? Are you afraid of the people? people who are like you?
Why do we judge others when all they did was, what they wanted to do and what made them happy and most importantly they had the courage and honesty to say it was their own decision, even when things went wrong.
Isn't being happy our right something we want throughout our lives? if seeing them happy makes you furious, makes you wanna call them names, then it is not them but you who is selfish. If you really care and loved them then  would set them free , let them fly make their own choices let them be selfish and when you will do so that free bird will come back to you and you will see the most humble and kind person. Don't we all in our hearts are ready to give up somethings in life ready to change ready to bend ready to let others make choice but first we need to see if you are ready to let them be selfish if for you seeing them happy is important.

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