What is the meaning of ignorant?
Well in dictionary it says discourteous or rude.
We all will agree with it, sometimes we are ignorant and most of the times others are ignorant .We have to admit it kinda hurts, doesnt it? like here we are tring to talk or do something or being nice to this person and look at them they are so ignorant! they dont even acknowledge us.
Being unnoticed hurts, doesnt it? to not be able to be recognised by someone who somehow holds importance in our lives (not talking about major importance just a little will also do).
But do we ever think why that person is ignorant? surely they did not born this way like c'mon that will b crazy!  we all are born like same literally. But time, series of events shape us as a person and yes importantly our choices finally makes us who we are.How do we become an ignorant person? it is very simple, really! not at all complicated, you remeber the time you did not think it was important to say thank you to the waiter or the time you failed to aknowledge your teacher or the day you thought complimenting someone will be so creepy or may be not your standard or the time you thought thank you was implied, that very moment you helped that person to climb one stair for becoming an ignorant human.We often forget this small detail, what might be small for us may be big for someone. When we take those decisons we change another person's view, we help them become ignorant and gradually they become ignorant in their life as whole.
You know becoming discourteous or rude doesnt give happiness or joy to anyone ,in fact it hurts them more than it hurts you,but by being ignorant they protect themselves from what they did to you that is "ignore"
Ironic!
I am writing this because i have been through it and also i have done it with others too and trust me this does not stop,you ignore them, they in return ignore someone else and this goes on.The only way you can stop it is by not doing what someone did to you, that is ignore.
So compliment others, aknowledge their presence, say thank you to the janitor, appreciate someones effort even if it is small and see how it will bring smile on their faces, how that small gesture will change them, even if it will be tiny one and u never know may be they will not be ignorant
to someone elses effort for them.

Lies
What does a lie mean? we all have our versions of what does a lie mean. for some of us it means that we are protecting the other person from something that could harm them for other it means an easy escape for someone it is not an option
To be honest we choose the meaning of word lie according to the situation. given it us we always want to know the truth bad or good we expect people to be honest with us just like we are with them. Wait a minute we were honest? but didn't the last time you told them they were playing the sports well even when they weren't oh that was just in their best interest wasn't it doesn't count as a lie. Oh yeah we were pretty much honest that time too when we cancelled the plan at the last moment oh that wasn't a lie either because it was in your best interest.
It is ironic really because when we seek advice from our friends or closed ones we expect them to be honest even when it is gonna hurt us because we want to become better we want to take in the negative feedback because that is in our best interest or when someone else cancel last moment we expect them to inform us before hand and not at the end moment.
But what really is a lie?
Lie is that one powerful word that can change your image your relationship with someone it will look like the easiest way but it will end up in worst ways. But once we are lied upon we are left questioned we start to rethink every statement that given person has said all of sudden even their genuine words become lies and that very moment we decide that this person from now on will only lie to us even if they don't. Now let us think deeper when we lie we expect others to understand we expect them to not judge and move on from it real quick. We make the rules we make the definitions we choose to judge others even what they really do is what we did to others even to them may be.
I am not encouraging anyone to lie or to hurt someone from blunt truth .Be a real person tell them where they went wrong add a little positive side to it help them become better than bitter. Sometimes we lie unintentionally but it is never too late to come clean.What I am trying to say is that we all want to be understood for whatever we do but when it comes our turn we rush to conclusions we don't want to give another chance but we always want second chances second time.

From the very beginning to the end who are we living for? whose dream are we fullfilling? are we content? sometime thinking about  our childhood the one thing we  recall is how we would freely dream. Some days we would wanna become model the other days we would wanna become doctor and this would never end.The want of becoming something or the other would just go on and on , nobody would stop us nobody would tell us how hard it is to achive those dreams, may be because we are too small to understand the reality of the world. But as we grow our want to become those star like dreams becomes to fade. We start to face real world real problems and somehow we are not
ready to give it what it takes. We are afraid what others would say, we are held back by our insecurities by the thought of what the society would think about us if we fail.So we choose the other way, we choose the road that others think is best for us and somehow we manage to believe, that yes!that is way easier than walking on the path of achieving our dream. This will make everyone happy even if that does not include me.What are we afraid of? failures? things we would have to listen if we fall? now just forget that and think what about those days when you will regret not being at the place you belong, when you will have monday blues because you are tired of living others dream.
Failure is part of everyone's life, it is just like seasons you cannot live your whole life in sunny days, there will be rainy days, days of spring  and autumn too. Some days you will achieve what you wanted and the other days you will fail terribly. Do not take decisions in your life thinking that this will lead to assured happiness and success because life is  uncertain sometimes the thing we think will surely lead to pardise is the one slowly taking us to hell.So dont kill yourself everyday, every dream of yours is worth a try and every path has its own ups and downs. Don't miss out on life because every second that passes by is not coming back so dont wait for the right time make this moment the right moment.You may fall a couple atimes but lets be serious who hasnt failed in their life? we all have but with  that every failure you learn a lesson that makes you stronger and better.