Lies
What does a lie mean? we all have our versions of what does a lie mean. for some of us it means that we are protecting the other person from something that could harm them for other it means an easy escape for someone it is not an option
To be honest we choose the meaning of word lie according to the situation. given it us we always want to know the truth bad or good we expect people to be honest with us just like we are with them. Wait a minute we were honest? but didn't the last time you told them they were playing the sports well even when they weren't oh that was just in their best interest wasn't it doesn't count as a lie. Oh yeah we were pretty much honest that time too when we cancelled the plan at the last moment oh that wasn't a lie either because it was in your best interest.
It is ironic really because when we seek advice from our friends or closed ones we expect them to be honest even when it is gonna hurt us because we want to become better we want to take in the negative feedback because that is in our best interest or when someone else cancel last moment we expect them to inform us before hand and not at the end moment.
But what really is a lie?
Lie is that one powerful word that can change your image your relationship with someone it will look like the easiest way but it will end up in worst ways. But once we are lied upon we are left questioned we start to rethink every statement that given person has said all of sudden even their genuine words become lies and that very moment we decide that this person from now on will only lie to us even if they don't. Now let us think deeper when we lie we expect others to understand we expect them to not judge and move on from it real quick. We make the rules we make the definitions we choose to judge others even what they really do is what we did to others even to them may be.
I am not encouraging anyone to lie or to hurt someone from blunt truth .Be a real person tell them where they went wrong add a little positive side to it help them become better than bitter. Sometimes we lie unintentionally but it is never too late to come clean.What I am trying to say is that we all want to be understood for whatever we do but when it comes our turn we rush to conclusions we don't want to give another chance but we always want second chances second time.