Is it ego to fight for yourself?
Does it make you selfish to want to be happy? to stand for yourself. It is funny ! really it is, how easily people judge you and your character when everyday they, themselves make choices that makes them happy. Why do we do the thing we do every single day is it to satisfy others or to satisfy ourselves? answer is simple even when we say that we did it for someone else we don't really mean it is all a cover , all of us at the end of the day do things that we want to do, that makes us happy.
Isn't it selfishness? to give it another's name. Oh yeah! we usually do it because if somehow things go wrong we can easily throw the blame on the other person. All of us become selfish when it comes to our happiness we choose what we think is best for us. Then why hide ourselves , hide who we are? Are you afraid of the people? people who are like you?
Why do we judge others when all they did was, what they wanted to do and what made them happy and most importantly they had the courage and honesty to say it was their own decision, even when things went wrong.
Isn't being happy our right something we want throughout our lives? if seeing them happy makes you furious, makes you wanna call them names, then it is not them but you who is selfish. If you really care and loved them then  would set them free , let them fly make their own choices let them be selfish and when you will do so that free bird will come back to you and you will see the most humble and kind person. Don't we all in our hearts are ready to give up somethings in life ready to change ready to bend ready to let others make choice but first we need to see if you are ready to let them be selfish if for you seeing them happy is important.

Stronger? Really?
What is the real definition of being strong? I guess we all have our own meanings for the word strong our own versions, that somehow tells our story of hardships.
For some people being strong is facing a difficulties all by themselves, even if it leaves them with all bruises, for some people it is sharing their problems with their closed ones and for some people they share stories with random people.The word strong is pretty much complexed it is not just about facing a rough situation but it is a reaction lead by the process of how we choose to be strong.
Whether we want to face it alone or ask others advice , about trusting ourselves or others , having faith in ourselves or not , and most importantly on how we see the world , do we see the black side or the white side or grey side. So whenever we try to be strong we are not only talking about the current situation but also how we face the coming events.How we will see the world now, after the bad day is over. Often we have faced a situation where we say we are strong but what we actually mean is that we are vulnerable and weak that we are really scared and want to break down but don't really know if it is okay to surrender? to breakdown ? we are somehow taught that crying, breaking down is a weakness and it is something one should not do.
Really? Is it so? Only a strong person can cry and confess that he is scared , that he is feeling weak and  what makes him strong is that he has courage to be weak. How many of us can do that?
Crying is not a bad thing sometimes when you cry you let your emotions out you feel liberated , free from everything and that gives you power to be strong.Sometimes being strong can cost us with scars that can never heal, damages we will never want to show anyone but you will be strong in real sense when you show those broken pieces of yourself to someone who really cares and let them fix you.
Being strong doesn't only means to face hard times with a smile but also to accept that it is okay to be afraid .

What is distance? is it the physical space between you and me ? the distance we see with our eyes something we can measure. How easily do we judge the status of our relationship with someone by being calculative about how close they are to us! but is it really the right thing to do?

I chose this image because for me this is what distance means.

It beautifully shows how sun and moon being so far yet they are so close, without the sun the moon wont shine even when they cant both rise together they make sure they feel each others presence. One cannot imagine moon without the sun and vice versa.

Everyday we meet people we talk to them we hangout with them we have a nice time , but when you are alone who are you willing to talk? who do you think is close to you? someone who stays next to you?  or someone who stays a little far away.

If you really want to measure the distance between you and someone then just close your eyes and think, can I act crazy with them? can I cry in front of them? can I show all the sides of me and they will just understand, if yes, then  this calculative distance is nothing. Sometimes we are way too close to someone physically but mentally we are living in two different worlds and then no matter how hard you try to keep your relation going it will eventually fall apart,

Broaden your vision and see through your heart and soul how close you really are with someone or how far they are from you. 

Acceptance
I never knew that the other meaning for it is freedom!
When someone accepts you just the way you are it is the best feeling in the world. All of sudden you feel like doing better and better you feel free from all the insecurities you had been holding .
Even being imperfect starts looking like being perfect.
Most of the time we deny the fact that we don't want to be accepted we like how we are and it is others problem if they cant deal with it! but really? don't we at least  want that one person who keeps their hands wide open and is ready to hold on to your craziness and match with it instead.
Acceptance is one of the most important link of being in love. Accepting not just flaws but to accept you when you are broken even when they know it will take a while to fix you.
The word acceptance indeed holds a lot of deeper meaning to it. 

Love is the most misunderstood word. Now you may think why? I knew the meaning of love ever since I can remember (my first crush in school or first romantic movie I watched in which they showed so called Ideal Love)
But often in the hustle of finding the True love of our life we forget the real meaning of love. Love is not something you can have for someone you desire to enter into a relationship, it is indeed deeper than that. Love is of various kinds and we usually focus on one kind of love i.e EROS: the love we have for someone we want to get intimate with. But what about the people we see everyday? their gestures? We are so engrossed on our first crush, first relationship , first rebound that we almost forget that love is a word that has no bounds it is limitless just like the sky. We overlook the people who genuinely loves us and most importantly they love us for being us and not somebody else.
Our parents are the greatest examples of Love. They love us from the very moment we born to the day we made our first huge mistakes and then to the long strings of events of mistakes either new or repeated. They unconditionally love us giving us infinite chances for improvement. Love for food , yes you heard me right I am talking about food! I love food and you know why ? It is that one thing I can make according to my taste and it never fails to make me feel better . The word  Love is not being romantic but it is being rational. If you truly love someone you just don't overlook their flaws but you make their flaws their strength and with everyday passing you make them better version of themselves. And that is why it is important for us to love ourselves before we love someone else because until you don't love yourself enough you cannot actually fall in love , even if you think you are in love you are not!
So take a while and look around yourself and acknowledge the love you get and let them know you feel blessed even if it is not your crush showing you love.

Is It Too Late To Say Sorry?

In our one small life we have millions of times asked for forgiveness, said sorry even when we didn't mean it. Most of the times we say sorry to just close the matter to just shut it! All of us expect to be forgiven without even meaning sorry! But when it is our chance to forgive we often forget it how this cycle works. It is my request not to ask for apology if you don't mean it because all of this has made us loose the real essence of forgiveness and apology. Even when someone genuinely says sorry we don't believe them and there goes your relationship with them. With that just 5 letters word we loose what we really had and you know why? the sorry wasn't real and neither the forgiveness! This is sin I am telling you! With every meaningless sorry, you also loose something and that is trust. And then there are  some people who are so adamant that they don't say sorry ever not even when it is not their fault. For them saying sorry is rusting their personality then you should know one thing saying sorry when it is your fault and when you mean it doesn't make you small rather makes you a big you know why? because you had the courage to accept your fault and say sorry for it. Tell me how many of us have courage to do that?
We often think sorry is a simple word but it is one of the most complicated word because over using results in losing trust  and not using it at all results in losing our own respect. To have the perfect combination of that very moment to say sorry and us to actually accept our fault is something we dare not to miss. Doesn't it fascinates you how such a simple world involves such a big calculations. Who knew that even life has its own maths and may be that is why we fail in it everyday!