Not Ashamed

I spent a part of my teenage years being ashamed of who I was, what my color was like, what my behavior was like. It was not me who was actually ashamed but people forcing me to think so and you know worst of it I let them make me believe I was that bad.
I still remember my friend being upset after a guy passed on a comment on her body figure and therefore refused to be friend with her ! It took me really long to figure out that she wasn't the one with the flaw but they were, not because they were dark or too smart but because they had a broken vision.You know why that other person affects your mind? it is because somehow you had that little insecurity within you and now that someone pointed it out, you all of sudden start thinking it is true!
So here is the truth, yes you are not perfect and so is nobody, all of us have something in our lives that we are bad at,  something that we feel insecure about and it is okay to have it.
Don't hold on to what someone has told you about 'YOU' .
At the end of the day it is your life your matter your decisions. Nobody takes perfect decisions we all fail many atimes but it is important to accept it and look at it with a positive aspect. Don't let anyone tell you that you are not good enough we don't come to this one life to please others but to lease our self. So if next time someone tells you that you are not good looking or you make a lot of mistakes tell them " I am not Ashamed " because I learn and make mistakes everyday.Dont let anyone make you live the life they think is perfect rather live your life on your own terms.