What is the meaning of ignorant?
Well in dictionary it says discourteous or rude.
We all will agree with it, sometimes we are ignorant and most of the times others are ignorant .We have to admit it kinda hurts, doesnt it? like here we are tring to talk or do something or being nice to this person and look at them they are so ignorant! they dont even acknowledge us.
Being unnoticed hurts, doesnt it? to not be able to be recognised by someone who somehow holds importance in our lives (not talking about major importance just a little will also do).
But do we ever think why that person is ignorant? surely they did not born this way like c'mon that will b crazy!  we all are born like same literally. But time, series of events shape us as a person and yes importantly our choices finally makes us who we are.How do we become an ignorant person? it is very simple, really! not at all complicated, you remeber the time you did not think it was important to say thank you to the waiter or the time you failed to aknowledge your teacher or the day you thought complimenting someone will be so creepy or may be not your standard or the time you thought thank you was implied, that very moment you helped that person to climb one stair for becoming an ignorant human.We often forget this small detail, what might be small for us may be big for someone. When we take those decisons we change another person's view, we help them become ignorant and gradually they become ignorant in their life as whole.
You know becoming discourteous or rude doesnt give happiness or joy to anyone ,in fact it hurts them more than it hurts you,but by being ignorant they protect themselves from what they did to you that is "ignore"
Ironic!
I am writing this because i have been through it and also i have done it with others too and trust me this does not stop,you ignore them, they in return ignore someone else and this goes on.The only way you can stop it is by not doing what someone did to you, that is ignore.
So compliment others, aknowledge their presence, say thank you to the janitor, appreciate someones effort even if it is small and see how it will bring smile on their faces, how that small gesture will change them, even if it will be tiny one and u never know may be they will not be ignorant
to someone elses effort for them.

Lies
What does a lie mean? we all have our versions of what does a lie mean. for some of us it means that we are protecting the other person from something that could harm them for other it means an easy escape for someone it is not an option
To be honest we choose the meaning of word lie according to the situation. given it us we always want to know the truth bad or good we expect people to be honest with us just like we are with them. Wait a minute we were honest? but didn't the last time you told them they were playing the sports well even when they weren't oh that was just in their best interest wasn't it doesn't count as a lie. Oh yeah we were pretty much honest that time too when we cancelled the plan at the last moment oh that wasn't a lie either because it was in your best interest.
It is ironic really because when we seek advice from our friends or closed ones we expect them to be honest even when it is gonna hurt us because we want to become better we want to take in the negative feedback because that is in our best interest or when someone else cancel last moment we expect them to inform us before hand and not at the end moment.
But what really is a lie?
Lie is that one powerful word that can change your image your relationship with someone it will look like the easiest way but it will end up in worst ways. But once we are lied upon we are left questioned we start to rethink every statement that given person has said all of sudden even their genuine words become lies and that very moment we decide that this person from now on will only lie to us even if they don't. Now let us think deeper when we lie we expect others to understand we expect them to not judge and move on from it real quick. We make the rules we make the definitions we choose to judge others even what they really do is what we did to others even to them may be.
I am not encouraging anyone to lie or to hurt someone from blunt truth .Be a real person tell them where they went wrong add a little positive side to it help them become better than bitter. Sometimes we lie unintentionally but it is never too late to come clean.What I am trying to say is that we all want to be understood for whatever we do but when it comes our turn we rush to conclusions we don't want to give another chance but we always want second chances second time.

From the very beginning to the end who are we living for? whose dream are we fullfilling? are we content? sometime thinking about  our childhood the one thing we  recall is how we would freely dream. Some days we would wanna become model the other days we would wanna become doctor and this would never end.The want of becoming something or the other would just go on and on , nobody would stop us nobody would tell us how hard it is to achive those dreams, may be because we are too small to understand the reality of the world. But as we grow our want to become those star like dreams becomes to fade. We start to face real world real problems and somehow we are not
ready to give it what it takes. We are afraid what others would say, we are held back by our insecurities by the thought of what the society would think about us if we fail.So we choose the other way, we choose the road that others think is best for us and somehow we manage to believe, that yes!that is way easier than walking on the path of achieving our dream. This will make everyone happy even if that does not include me.What are we afraid of? failures? things we would have to listen if we fall? now just forget that and think what about those days when you will regret not being at the place you belong, when you will have monday blues because you are tired of living others dream.
Failure is part of everyone's life, it is just like seasons you cannot live your whole life in sunny days, there will be rainy days, days of spring  and autumn too. Some days you will achieve what you wanted and the other days you will fail terribly. Do not take decisions in your life thinking that this will lead to assured happiness and success because life is  uncertain sometimes the thing we think will surely lead to pardise is the one slowly taking us to hell.So dont kill yourself everyday, every dream of yours is worth a try and every path has its own ups and downs. Don't miss out on life because every second that passes by is not coming back so dont wait for the right time make this moment the right moment.You may fall a couple atimes but lets be serious who hasnt failed in their life? we all have but with  that every failure you learn a lesson that makes you stronger and better.

Is it ego to fight for yourself?
Does it make you selfish to want to be happy? to stand for yourself. It is funny ! really it is, how easily people judge you and your character when everyday they, themselves make choices that makes them happy. Why do we do the thing we do every single day is it to satisfy others or to satisfy ourselves? answer is simple even when we say that we did it for someone else we don't really mean it is all a cover , all of us at the end of the day do things that we want to do, that makes us happy.
Isn't it selfishness? to give it another's name. Oh yeah! we usually do it because if somehow things go wrong we can easily throw the blame on the other person. All of us become selfish when it comes to our happiness we choose what we think is best for us. Then why hide ourselves , hide who we are? Are you afraid of the people? people who are like you?
Why do we judge others when all they did was, what they wanted to do and what made them happy and most importantly they had the courage and honesty to say it was their own decision, even when things went wrong.
Isn't being happy our right something we want throughout our lives? if seeing them happy makes you furious, makes you wanna call them names, then it is not them but you who is selfish. If you really care and loved them then  would set them free , let them fly make their own choices let them be selfish and when you will do so that free bird will come back to you and you will see the most humble and kind person. Don't we all in our hearts are ready to give up somethings in life ready to change ready to bend ready to let others make choice but first we need to see if you are ready to let them be selfish if for you seeing them happy is important.

Stronger? Really?
What is the real definition of being strong? I guess we all have our own meanings for the word strong our own versions, that somehow tells our story of hardships.
For some people being strong is facing a difficulties all by themselves, even if it leaves them with all bruises, for some people it is sharing their problems with their closed ones and for some people they share stories with random people.The word strong is pretty much complexed it is not just about facing a rough situation but it is a reaction lead by the process of how we choose to be strong.
Whether we want to face it alone or ask others advice , about trusting ourselves or others , having faith in ourselves or not , and most importantly on how we see the world , do we see the black side or the white side or grey side. So whenever we try to be strong we are not only talking about the current situation but also how we face the coming events.How we will see the world now, after the bad day is over. Often we have faced a situation where we say we are strong but what we actually mean is that we are vulnerable and weak that we are really scared and want to break down but don't really know if it is okay to surrender? to breakdown ? we are somehow taught that crying, breaking down is a weakness and it is something one should not do.
Really? Is it so? Only a strong person can cry and confess that he is scared , that he is feeling weak and  what makes him strong is that he has courage to be weak. How many of us can do that?
Crying is not a bad thing sometimes when you cry you let your emotions out you feel liberated , free from everything and that gives you power to be strong.Sometimes being strong can cost us with scars that can never heal, damages we will never want to show anyone but you will be strong in real sense when you show those broken pieces of yourself to someone who really cares and let them fix you.
Being strong doesn't only means to face hard times with a smile but also to accept that it is okay to be afraid .

What is distance? is it the physical space between you and me ? the distance we see with our eyes something we can measure. How easily do we judge the status of our relationship with someone by being calculative about how close they are to us! but is it really the right thing to do?

I chose this image because for me this is what distance means.

It beautifully shows how sun and moon being so far yet they are so close, without the sun the moon wont shine even when they cant both rise together they make sure they feel each others presence. One cannot imagine moon without the sun and vice versa.

Everyday we meet people we talk to them we hangout with them we have a nice time , but when you are alone who are you willing to talk? who do you think is close to you? someone who stays next to you?  or someone who stays a little far away.

If you really want to measure the distance between you and someone then just close your eyes and think, can I act crazy with them? can I cry in front of them? can I show all the sides of me and they will just understand, if yes, then  this calculative distance is nothing. Sometimes we are way too close to someone physically but mentally we are living in two different worlds and then no matter how hard you try to keep your relation going it will eventually fall apart,

Broaden your vision and see through your heart and soul how close you really are with someone or how far they are from you. 

Acceptance
I never knew that the other meaning for it is freedom!
When someone accepts you just the way you are it is the best feeling in the world. All of sudden you feel like doing better and better you feel free from all the insecurities you had been holding .
Even being imperfect starts looking like being perfect.
Most of the time we deny the fact that we don't want to be accepted we like how we are and it is others problem if they cant deal with it! but really? don't we at least  want that one person who keeps their hands wide open and is ready to hold on to your craziness and match with it instead.
Acceptance is one of the most important link of being in love. Accepting not just flaws but to accept you when you are broken even when they know it will take a while to fix you.
The word acceptance indeed holds a lot of deeper meaning to it.